We can't think of a better way to enrich your B Mitzvah ceremony and reception than by incorporating such family treasures. Here are some ideas to consider:
Ask your rabbi if you can use your heirloom kiddush cup during the Friday night ceremony. You can also use it during the Saturday afternoon kiddush.
Lucky enough to have a grandfather who has handed down a talis? This is a terrific way to create a lasting memory. You can still give your child his own, brand new talis if you like; simply wear one on Friday night, the other on Saturday.
MITZ TIP: Be sure to allow ample time to dry clean or repair any frays or stains to your antique talis. Err on the side of caution by using a cleaner with demonstrated experience cleaning older fabrics. A good way to find a person is by asking antiques dealers or owners of vintage clothing shops. Most likely, they'll have names they trust and recommend.
Recipes that have been passed down over the years are heirlooms, too! If there's a treasured recipe for challah, or anything else, your child's grandmother uses (or used), ask your caterer or baker if they can make it. This can be a very special way to include her (or her memory if she has passed away) in the event. Some lucky people have older relatives who are still spry enough to bustle about in the kitchen. If you're blessed with one, think about inviting her to bake the challah - or a limited amount of something else -- for the reception herself.
Consider wearing an heirloom watch, ring or necklace from a treasured grandparent. It's a simple yet powerful way to create a tangible link to the past.
